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  1. Distant Lover

    Distant Lover Master of Facts

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    The Lilly, Apr. 23, 2021, by Natalie B. Compton

    For more than a decade, the trauma I experienced the summer after high school stayed filed away in my brain as something to be ashamed of, something to keep secret...

    My nice guy was a rich, handsome college graduate I met where I worked at the time. The night he invited me to his house for the first time, I was 18 and ecstatic. We drank his Patron tequila before he led me from the kitchen to a completely dark den where I assumed we’d make out. We did, for a moment. Then my date got up from the couch, retrieved a condom and started opening it as he stood in the shadows. I told him not to: I didn’t want to have sex. He put it on, smiling defiantly. I repeated I didn’t want to have sex. He didn’t stop...

    The week after my rape, I told a couple of friends that my date had sex with me after I told him not to repeatedly. And then I bottled it up. In the following months, away at college for the first time, I felt too repulsive to have friends. I avoided social opportunities unless I drank enough to blackout. It was too embarrassing to exist sober. Eventually, I went to a campus therapist. While I didn’t tell her about my sexual assault, I did tell her about the fantasies I had of swerving my bike into oncoming traffic...

    The National Sexual Violence Resource Center says rape is the most underreported crime, and some estimate less than 1 percent of rapes lead to felony convictions.

    No matter how long ago an incident occurred, Wyatt encourages survivors to report their assaults. She recommends calling RAINN’s confidential, 24/7 hotline to get help connecting with your closest rape center. The Lily recently published a wealth of resources for survivors seeking support, too.

    https://www.thelily.com/it-took-me-...rweb&utm_medium=referral&utm_source=extension

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    There are four things a teenage girl or a woman should keep in mind about rape:

    Do not drink when you are alone with a man you do not know. Even a man you know and trust may rape you.

    If you do not want to have sex with a man tell him so. Keep telling him.

    If you are raped, report the crime to the police immediately. Overcome your embarrassment and your shame. You owe it to yourself, the rapists' former victims, and those who care about you and them.

    There is such thing as justifiable homicide. There is no such thing as justifiable rape.
     
    1. 1 Toy Maker
      Suicide is not an option
       
      1 Toy Maker, Jun 13, 2021
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  2. darkride

    darkride Porn Star

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    Thanks for posting this.

    Teaching boys about consent has to become mandatory at all schools - in no uncertain terms.

    But the bigger issue is police. Far too often reports are dismissed and ignored, allowing the perpetrator to continue their actions.

    What's more - in court, defense lawyers have to be STOPPED from trying to lay blame on the victim. It doesn't matter what they were wearing, where they were at what time, and all the other shit. Any lawyer trying that should be disbarred, and any judge who allows it should be sacked.

    Sadly, it's not something that will change overnight. Improvements have been made (at least in some places, in some countries), but we're decades away from any major change. :(

    At least more of us are having the conversation now.
     
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  3. thinskin

    thinskin Porn Star Banned!

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    It has been mandatory in our schools (Dutch schools) for years!

    thinskin
     
    1. shootersa
      Thank you, thinskin for yet again reminding us how superior life is in the Netherlands.
       
      shootersa, Jun 13, 2021
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  4. 1 Toy Maker

    1 Toy Maker Kuns og Kram Smukke Love once found never lost

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    It's a complete f..k up.
    I know I there are no shortage of women who will sleep with a fat ugly guy like me and even if they all said no, call girls are nice and professional.
    If the woman don't want you, have some self respect and move on. Don't emotionally ruin a life and a beautiful thing.
    And if you're dumb enough I hope you end up sharing a jail cell with that ladies dad for the rest of your short miserable life.
     
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  5. thestrangerinyou

    thestrangerinyou cookiemonster

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    The thing you have to understand about rape is its normally not about the sex for the rapist its about power and control. The story posted by the original op is very interesting as I never heard of a rapist stopping to put a condom on then again maybe this was the 1% of rape that is just about sex.
     
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      Plenty do, particularly in date rape scenarios.
       
      curiousscouser, Jun 14, 2021
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  6. tenguy

    tenguy Reasoned voice of XNXX

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    Perhaps we should look at culture and the confusing way we, as a society, refuse to hold those who violate laws responsible for their actions. Defense lawyers are not the villains, the public is, the juries are and our screwed up sense of justice is. Tactics by defense lawyers only work if we allow them to. Obviously, there are cases of false accusation, as well as, contributing circumstances, but they surely do not represent more than a fraction of the cases.

    Why do we glorify men who willfully impregnate young women without regard for the person or the child that results from their indiscriminate couplings? Why do we think that guys with an extensive sexual history is a stud, but a woman with the same history a wanton slut?Today’s music, TV, movie and social media is filled with examples of irresponsible sexual activities.
     
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  7. steve_vme

    steve_vme The truth seeker

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    Look up Dr. Harry Brods words on consent. These should be used everywhere and yet politicians will never write a law that makes things more perfect.
     
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